I believe it is the first one because not everyone uses that. Some other group of people may say it differently.
<span>"Have you ever been taken to the State Fair?" is passive.
"</span><span>The team won the state championship." is active.
To differentiate is really easy! Passive voice is constructed by using "to be" and past participle (e.g. bought, cost, made, done, etc.) and put enfasis on the action, not on the person who did/does it.</span>
Maybe internal conflict? Not 100% sure but about 70%
What book? There are many different books named ambush.
Do you mean Tim O'Brien