Brainly people only answer the most simplest problems on this site,but when it comes to a more difficult problem u fail to answer it because a few problems are to much for you"Mods".This site is suppose to be for people who need help with problems and I don't see any help being handed around here!!
Well first you have to find a New Years resolution maybe to study more, get fit, be more open. Then you could do the steps for how to achieve these things then what you hope it will lead to a healthier and easier lifestyle. Good luck!