For example, it is both immoral and illegal to murder and to steal. We are fortunate in such cases, for then we do not have to choose between law and morality. But since there is no positive relationship of any description between legalities and moralities, it is a mere coincidence when they correspond.
You know what you can achieve not anyone else. By setting your ow goals, not only is it personalized and tailored to you, but there are no set time to achieve them. By making them your own, you have time and reality of it.