You can use gestures to emphasize key points. Volume and tone both include verbal so it isn't those, and then pace is how fast you move which usually doesn't affect key points.
The answer is "don't" So, the correct sentence would be "<span>Don't your mom and I use the same hairdresser?"</span>
For one, it's best to remain honest even when no ones looking. Secondly, i'm sure the author of what ever it is would like to receive credit for the work they've done. It's just morally & ethically wrong to accept credit for something that's not original work.
Getting all A and B.........