Try things like drawing or listening to music to see if you relate in interests. Ask them what their favorite hobby is and talk about it!
<span>Ask them what their favorite item is and talk about why they like it or why it is important to them? </span>
<span>Maybe ask them what they like to talk about (cars, celebrities, animals etc) and have a normal conversation and then once they enjoy chatting, then move on to the more "mentor-y" stuff :)</span>
I can say that the "The Oath of the Horatii" which is by Jacques-Louis David shows that heroic actions were SIGNS or MARKS OF MASCULINITY. "The Oath of the Horatii" is actually a painting made by Jacques-Louis David, a French artist and this was done in the year 1784. Hope this helps.