If you really like him, than date him.If you can find someone else you like better than don't date with him.
Answer:
THEY HAVE NOT PASSED THE TEST..
You can that aunt marry is someone who is very nervous and cautious by how the author used the word shrieked and how you can infer she was scared by the tone of the story
Do you have any pic? That will be helpful and that way I can answer that to you :)