If you really like him, than date him.If you can find someone else you like better than don't date with him.
As you said above, the word "bob" means fencing and you want to know how this can have a double meaning related to homophobes.
This is what I see the 2 meanings as:
1. fencing, as in taking out your fencing sword
2. take out your penis, as penis would be another word for sword in plays/books such as the one you're reading - this would be relating to gays if the convo was btwn 2 men
<em>I just want to say thank you for posting the story it is really helpful but what is the question again?</em>
free points I guess I don't understand even what the sentence is 0-0