I think its option d. hope this helps :)
Arrogant due to his fortune and growing up around similar characters. Snobbish due to mistreatment perhaps from a close friend in his childhood. And above all, honest, which may be a product of good upbringing and certainly insight on his true character.
The reason for soldiers to stop Annemarie while on the way to Uncle Henrik's boat is that they are looking for escaping Jews.
Hope this helps :)
A theme expressed in both "To My Dear Loving Husband" and "To the King's Most Excellent Majesty" is gratitude and loyalty.
