This is false, and the opposite is true!
A want, used as a noun, refers to something that is not necessary, but something that is wanted, desired only.
A need, in contrast, refers to something that is necessary, so it is not merely something that is wanted, but something that is very essential.
Was ,and in are the adverbs
The action of the speaker that can be considered ironic is that actually the speaker takes initiative of establishing the wall up to himself but then he questions it and has some doubts about that. There is another irony, I would say, the main one, you may find it useful : the wall which was meant to separate neighbours brings them together every year in order to repair it. Is it really the borderline?Hope that helps.