After reading this except from leo tolstoy’s the death of ivan ilyich I've recognized the sentence which shows that ivan ilyich’s daughter, lisa, does not empathize with her father’s suffering almos in the end of the excerpt. I am pretty sure that this sentence best shows what you need.
"it's as if we were to blame! i am sorry for papa, but why should we be tortured?"
The Cunninghams maybe the poorest family in Maycomb but they have a certain principle to follow. For instance, they do not accept anything if they can not pay it back. They repay the people they owe by exchanging crops and chopped woods from their farm.