When dogs are chasing racoons or squirrels, the things they're chasing run up into trees to escape, and then the dogs gather around the base of the tree and bark and howl up at them.
If it's at night, it can happen that the dogs lose sight of them, but continue to follow their scent (smell) for a few seconds. That may be just long enough for the squirrel to make a sharp turn and go where the dogs don't know he went, and into a different tree. Then you have a hilarious sight: The pack of dogs are all jumping and howling and barking up into a tree, and the squirrel is up in a different tree watching them.
The dogs are literally barking up the wrong tree.
It means: ==> Pursuing the objective in the wrong direction. You've somehow been distracted or deflected from a productive course, and you're looking in the wrong place for the object of your pursuit or search or goal.
The correct option is statement 3. The statement shows that Nora desired to please her husband by doing the things her husband want, in this case she desire to keep her home beautiful just the way her husband like it. This implies that she respects what her husband likes and devote herself to pleasing him.