It is not either of the last two options because they would both have the opposite effect on your audience then you would want them to have. So out of the first two choices, I think Using a tone of frustration when describing how difficult it is to eat with forks and spoons would help you relate to the audience the best, making your argument the most compelling. Choice B is what I would go with.
“to Nick” “to join him” “at his party”
Answer: we identify how the author builds the mood of the work using a combination of setting, imagery, tone, diction, and plot.