The poem is "Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening" by: Robert Frost
According to the poem, the man's house is in the village. Citing the poem:
"Whose woods these are I think I know.
His house is in the village though" (Frost 1-2)
The attitude of the author
She's showing overconfidence, she think she's better than others and that makes her unapproachable