Thomas Hardy mourns for his wife, Emma. He personifiesLove so that he can express his pain and suffering with a sense of remorse. He suggests that the only way to find peace with pain is to personify the emotion that causes the pain. It is written in remembrance of the lost love.
Thomas Hardy, in his poem "I Said to Love", connotes his love through Apostrophe- A figure of speech in which the poet addresses an idea, a person or a thing. It is one of the methods implied by Hardy so as to enrich his poem with artistic merits.