Id say the answer to most of that question, is how approachable you look to the opposing person. everyone has their own preferences though you know?
A folk tale would be kind of like an urban legend
<em><u>The six elements of the life cycle of fire are described by Dawson Powell in The Mechanics of Fire. These elements are input heat, fuel, oxygen, proportioning, mixing, and ignition </u></em><em><u>continuity</u></em>