With the abuser telling the victim that they love them and want to protect them. Often no violence to begin with. But as time goes on, they will often restrict what the victim does, such as talking to friends. Sometimes, there is no physical violence, just these restrictions.
However, if violence does start, it can begin with just something mild, out the blue and unexpected, which the abuser wilk oass of as an accident, and will nor ally be forgiven.
Sometimes, as time goes on, this wilk keep happening, and sometimes the victim is threatened so they wont tekk anybody, and the abuser may tell the victim that it is fir their own good.
Most abusive relationships dont start off with any intention of violence or restriction, but either way, abusive rekationships are seriously wrong and anybody in one shoukd always try to seek help, no matter the circumstances
Answer:
I dont think you love him. I had this same problem, don’t be afraid to tell him how you really feel and the situations he has caused for you because of him. Please trust me when I say this: It is time to let him go!!!! My best friend helped me get through this hard situation; you always need someone by your side to help you, so I suggest that. Please let him off easy, say if you can still be friends, and tell him you need a break and to LET HIM GO. Youve got this girl, I know because I went through it - and I am just fine without him now.
I’d say the first step is recognizing the need for help.
Food and drugs are often viewed as safer then what they really are, wether it’s on the package or by hearing it from other people. often food seems healthy like strawberry icecream although it is not, people only think it is because there is a fruit in the name. People think you just get drugs from bad people but you can go and get them at ur local store these are called over the counter medication and because of this people often think they are safe to take because you need no prescription. the best thing to do is talk to a doctor before getting them. also plan a healthy diet or just watch what ur eating. i hope this helped :)
