Frankenstein doesn't admit he is the murderer because he was away at college when the murder was happening.
I will treat them differently from the way my parents treated me.
The circumstances are not the same, we will be living in different times.
Also, my kids probably will have different personalities and points of view each one of them.
Of course I will remember many things that worked out with me from my parents and try those ones out.
Answer:
people lose control of their lives and believe they are victims of fate
