Sometimes people don't agree on so they try to settle things with a debate but even then they might not agree in the end. you have to agree to disagree. Accepeting that you won't agree will make things easier so neither of them has the possibility of getting mad.
What do the townspeople think when their town is evacuated and sent to Auschwitz in Night? They are being sent to their deaths. They are being sent on vacation so that the Nazis can steal their valuables. They worry that they will never see their families again.