I would say that The Uri was really a woman´s ceremony, and the main figures were the bride and her mother. This is because the ceremony is planned for the man to see if that woman would be suitable. It was a meeting to decide which was the price of a marriageable bride. Her "mother is expected to prepare food for the whole village with the help of other women."
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The three on the left are first person and the three on the right are second-