Women who get angry at their boyfriends, husbands, etc. may think that it's alright to hit them since they're 'stronger' than women, and women are rarely ever seen getting prosecuted for domestic violence. Men may think it's okay to assault women based on their clothing, and will project their own aggression on to a less threatening source, women, since they are seen as weaker.
The easiest things to write about would be like colours, sports, subjects, hobbies, etc. basically anything you like but don’t stress yourself bc they are opinions, not facts.
I believe it is the second answer, "why did you interfere? your arm allowed him to stab me". Hope i helped !