Answer:
1 . Ask with gratitude, show appreciation!
2. Trade what you want for what you can do.
3 . Make them look good.
4 . Earn credit, slowly.
5. Be part of the solution, not the problem.
6. Ask for delayed response.
7. Stage your requests carefully
Explanation:
Just ask nicely and see if they are willing to compromise with you on what you could do for it like chores or something.
Id assume racism could be one? Or the language barrier?
Lazy is the negative strongest connotations i think