1 good key to a good argument would be by <span>presenting </span>good counter-<span>argument, and not going ham or ranking on that person. You dont want to points out all the bad thing's on that person. You would need to be as honest as possible and not cause any word's that can harm and make the argument worse.
Example: If you were to put a bull and another bull in one arena and they are both mad at each other. They will keep fighting and "arguing in a sense" that they will never get along. But if you were to put a animal lower than a bull. The lower animal would be the most humble. When being in a argument, you should be very humble because afterward your relationship will increase and not decrease.
Create points that are valid, justify others answers, listen to what the other says, say your reasoning. Find a good middle if both can't decide who's right.
Answer: "You can make sure your language is appropriate by checking the type of words you use and the way you speak for example if you are discussing something sorrowful you may want to talk compassionately. Most of the time when you are having a conversation with someone it would be considered informal but while giving a speech or doing a presentation your writing or speaking should be formal and well organized."
I think that in an essay you will probaly need 1.Support 2.State the opposite 3.Sum up everything 4.Continues an arguement 5.Middle paragraphs 6.Debate on alien life 7. 1 8.Supporting evidence