Yo <em>estoy hablando</em> con Miguelito.
Estar = not done yet, but will be done...
vs.
Estoy = in the current process of...
Hablo = Speak
vs.
Hablando = Speaking
In this sentence we use estoy and hablando because it is current.
Hope this helps!~
Comelo is in the yo form meaning I not you
I'd write being the most helpful in a fire or in a ruff situation.