What, who,when, where, & why
Answer:
When you were judged you felt ugly when you weren't.
You resolved that feeling by focusing on your own thoughts of yourself.
You now won't let other's thought's of you bring you down.
You see yourself as a beautiful person.
It is very degrading. Feeling you are not as good as someone else just because you were born the way you were born. I am sure she felt very, very degraded when she was shamed and treated unequally due to her gender.
Hope this helps! Just sharing my thoughts.