Maybw you could start like this. “When i was a kid i had to overcome many difficult challenges such as (list one or two things). this (these) experiences have impacted me and helped me learn new life lessons and help me get through other tough challenges.” then just talk about things you have learned from the personal experience:)
I would say dear auntie I have lost the right to watch television and I need your help to get that right back. If you help me I can do chores around your house and I can help you go grocery shopping.
Explanation:
It´s hard to find something to do for your aunt other than maybe chores or other stuff like that so I guess those could go hand in hand.
D. ancestors. the indirect object precedes the direct object and tells to whom or for whom the action of the verb is done and who is receiving the direct object.