We are all humans built with different emotional characteristics once a relationship has ended we of course tend to recall the hurtful/painful aspects of it so when we , I , meet someone new I'm finding myself to be more guarded more cations and reserved out of fear of not rejection but the pain again so when we, I, look at someone new but with the eyes of my memories I'm not only cheated the person but myself because look, we try very hard to find a “ good kind “ etc person but we all know we kiss a load of toads and if we are lucky to find the prince so if we carry over our fears our hurts and we tend to expect that so we end up missing out on the good as well.
