By giving a speech in an American University, in April 1965.
Answer: <em>During his youth, Valentine gave him the nickname "Ender" because she could not yet pronounce "Andrew". His birth illustrated Peter's failure to fulfill a destiny in Battle School, and as a result Peter abused him mercilessly.</em>
a man complains about that the father should let the boy ride the donkey
Explanation:
because the "man" is letting the boy feel better about himself.... I think