First of all Jay is still a girl...there is no such thing as girl becoming a boy...just because she changes the way she acts does not change her gender....she was born a girl and will die a girl.
second of all Spinx needs to get over it and learn that it is not worth killing herself over some person that never cared about her in the first place
sorry if this is not the answer you were looking for but it is the exact truth.
On the picture below with the hooded figure around the little boy. Gives off this unsettling feeling of protection but very aggressive. While the boy seems unbothered, I feel like the little boy have seen this hooded figure plenty of times to just be comfortable with it, especially letting the hooded figure letting it hug him. As it is a little boy this hooded figure is somehow either protecting or being abit territorial, I feel like it could be a relative to this boy he was very close to, or if not a mother who lost his son in a tragic moment and feels like the boy reminds her of his late son. Who she cherish alot, with memories and love, but with the process of protecting the little boy, she seems either very aggressive and territorial.
Sure, what do you need help with?