Question

Why do girls say personality over looks but wont go near a ugly dude smh

Answer 1

From what I have observed girls tend not to care when a guy is ugly, but instead when they are hot. What I mean by this is if two boys act normal and boy A is not considered attractive but boy B is considered attractive, boy A will get a normal amount of attention, but boy B will get a ton of attention. Girls don’t care if the boy is ugly, they really only do care if a boy is hot. This being said boys can have terrible behavior that can easily be normalized. A lot of boys act terrible and rude. Now take the earlier scenario, if both boys are badly behaved boy A will be shunned, and unfortunately boy B will still get attention. This makes it seem like it’s because the boy is ugly but girls would treat any normal looking boy that way. Now I have to say, I have never seen a girl choose a handsome but badly behaved and rude boy over a well mannered and well behaved boy who isn’t attractive.

A disclaimer that generalizations are made, not all boys or girls act, behave, or think like this. This is simply a generalization made of observations.

Answer 2

They say that because they don’t want to be made fun of for only going for looks. Actually girls go for both