Question

“Who do you get into the most conflict with in your life? If you had to use one word to describe how you behave in conflict situations with this person, what would it be? Why? If you had to describe one word to describe how the other person behaves in conflict situations with you, what would it be? Why? Do you think the other person would agree with these words? Why or why not?”

Answer 1

Answer:

1. The person I get into the most conflict in my life is my best friend Kierra.
2. The one word which adequately describes how I behave in such situations is frustration.
3. The reason is that Kierra is very opinionated and is a terrible listener. She almost never says "sorry" and in many cases always starts the argument/conflict.
4. The one word which describes Kierra at such times is self-absorbed.
5. The reason is, Kierra likes to win. So she, during an argument/conflict only listens to reply. I think that she finds it difficult to put herself in another's shoes.
6. No way. Kierra would never agree with the words. This is because she would rather protect her self-image rather than apologize. An apology would mean she did something wrong. If she did something wrong then her interpretation of it is that she is less than perfect.

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