For "Treat others the way yo want to be treated"
A good example would be <em>American History X</em>, Derek was a white supremacist, a neo-nazi, he was racist towards anyone that was not white. When a balck guy tries to robb his car he ends up killing him and going to jail; in jail Derek joins a neo-nazi gang but soon realizes that the interact whit hispanics in exchange for drugs. He believes this is wrong and ends up arguing with the gang members, separating from them. They then treat him as an outsider and assault him in the showers. He shocks and slowly starts to realize that what he was doing was wrong, that we are all equal and that being a neo-nazi was incorrect. When he gets out he finds out his little brother also joined the neo-nazi group, he convinces him to leave it but in the end the brother gets killed by a black guy. Showing that treating someone with violence will only lead to more violence.
For "Apearrances can be deceiving":
<em> American Psycho</em> shows the life of what appears to be a wealthy and respected investment banker, Patrick Batesman. He moves in the high class, going to bars, meetings, parties showing that he is a functional member of society. But in his private life he is a psychopath who likes hiring prostitutes and doing harm to innocent people by hitting or killing them.
For "Everyone can make a difference"
The perfect example is <em>Mulan</em>. The emperor summarizes it with "A single grain of rice can tip the scale". One man may be the difference between victory and defeat” In this movie a women in a patriarcal society joins to the army disguised as a guy. She saves China from the Mongol invasion although everyone thought she was weak.