Friar hopes that the marriage can bypass that hate between both sides of the family he believes that peace and love between the couple can help the other people of the family.
commas are necesarry when there is a sequence or list of numbers ex 2, 4, 6, 8, and so on but if it looked like this
2
4
6
8 in a vertical column, there is no need for them
Its usually written as the first sentence of the paragraph (although its not necessary but preferred) It basically includes the main idea or the topic of the paragraph (doesn't have to be word for word), and states the main points of the paragraph briefly.
What you are looking for is the theme