You HAVE to marry him? Its ok if you dont love him..he has to understand the fact that you dont feel the same way! and your mom is telling you that your gonna marry him in the right time? like did she ask you what you wanted to do with your life or she just decided for you? Because that is wrong. You are you and you need to decide for yourself. Yes thats your parent but she cant control your life!! You should talk with the boy and say "I dont feel the same way...." And he needs to understand it he cant MAKE you or FORCE you to feel something for him- thats just wrong. And you should Def talk to your mom she has no respect for you and she should not decide who you should be with