My three brothers and I love fishing at a pier close to our house.
I thought it was great but when he stole books it was horrible
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You can use "they." It depends how you are going to build your sentence!
I have had a family member sick but I stayed away nd so did my family mf we weren’t affected
"Shams and delusions are esteemed for the soundest truths, while reality is fabulous. [...] When we are unhurried and wise, we perceive that only great and worthy things have and permanent and absolute existence[...] By closing the eyes and slumbering, and consenting to be deceived by shows, men establish and confirm their daily life of routine and habit everywhere"