No i havent read the book before
D. The villagers were welcoming to all visitors to their island
Explanation:
just write a nice perfect letter
The answer is that<em> by doing so he would violate the very customs Okonkwo is trying to preserve</em>, meaning that instead of being the bigger person he is becoming what he detests the most.
Another option would be that the use of violence would make him become the father he has always hated.