I will edit the answer after, i just kind of need more info:
is the essay about what makes people mentally strong?
people who went through things to make them mentally strong?
the impact mentally strong people make?
please comment quickly :)
What is the question to this?
Answer: " I always told her she needed to update her clothes... "
" But I spied a hideous gnome in the flower garden... "
Explanation: I is in 1st person, He, She, It and they are in 3rd person.
Hope that's helpful :)