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you are almost correct its "qué quieres para/de beber"
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The "personal a" is not necessary in that sentence. If you say: "No recuerdo tu nombre" it means "I don't remember your name". If you say "No recuerdo a tu nombre" it is not grammatically correct.
Given that including the "personal a" is grammatically incorrect, then the personal "a" is not necessary.