But, when it comes down to it, don't let yourself mold into what other people expect from you. If the person or people you like want you to act a certain way, don't change yourself for them. Be yourself. People say it all the time, but it means a lot more than everyone thinks. Make the first move. Flirt. Ask them to hang out. Ask them on a date. Do whatever you want, but keep you and them comfortable and feeling safe.
used to ask this question to myself a couple of years ago
Explanation:
have confidence, and I don't mean going up to a person and asking them out. I mean in yourself- now I don't mean cocky, but being confident can really make someone attractive. Even if it's fale confidence at first, it will turn into real confidence in time. Then just being funny, interesting, but also just being nice- not creepy nice. Just talk to them in a way you would have small talk with a friend. Don't talk to people for the intent of a relationship, it's obvious and can make a person uncomfortable and very uninterested. You don't always have to be attractive to get the person, personality can make someone who isn't so attractive to someone very attractive. I got to go, but hope this helps.
Buying things on easy instalments can keep you permanently in debt but if you have a regular salary or wages this may be the best way to spread out your debts. On the other hand, if you are a consultant or contractor and don't get regular income, it becomes necessary to pay some things with a lump sum as much as possible in the absence of regular income.
