I feel like it's strange for me to answer this question since I am 14 years old but...it's completely normal for a lot of semen to come out, but the more frequently you ejaculate, the less it is. If you feel like you are going to come too soon, then take a 30 second pause. Hope this helps!
I would go with staying sober as the tittle seems like they try to help you recover from alcoholism but alcoholism anonymous sounds like people talking about there experience with each other anonymously