It’s difficult to paraphrase material if you don’t understand it
The answer is that<em> by doing so he would violate the very customs Okonkwo is trying to preserve</em>, meaning that instead of being the bigger person he is becoming what he detests the most.
Another option would be that the use of violence would make him become the father he has always hated.
The concept of compare and contrast is to take two unlike things and compare similarities and contrast differences.
Examples: t-chart, venn diagram
Look do no go on the link it give virus. And sorry to tell ya but no one going to answer that question God bless you!!!