Im not sure I understand this question,but I will try to make out what you are trying to say,you can have alot of drama in your life with others,but without others then there is not very much drama,maybe you can have drama just by your self,for example you find a thing of ants and feel like your about to pass out(happened to me this morning) thats drama without other people.
Following- followed- followed
reading- read- read
laying- lay- laid
Not 100% sure.
