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Revenge typically creates more problems. Although revenge may serve as <em>temporary</em> relief, it usually leads to an escalation of conflict. Revenge may also make you feel worse in the long run. Feelings of <em>guilt</em>, or <em>shame</em> and <em>anxiety</em> can develope, and the conflict may still feel unresolved leading to disappointment and frustration.
<u>Example:</u>
You share a friendship with someone. They are spending the night over at your house. After they leave, you realize you're missing valuables. You feel an overwhelming sense of <em>betrayal</em>, and a <em>desire to seek revenge</em>. So, you in turn steal some of their valuables. You get into a conflict with your friend, which only gets escalated due to your actions. You break off the friendship, and move on. But, feelings of disappointment and shame creep up. The conflict still feels unresolved, and by taking revenge, it only made things worse.
That is why revenge isn't a good way to cope with conflict. When we get revenge, we can <em>no longer trivialize the situation</em>. Instead, we're more likely to <em>dwell</em> on it. Instead of providing <em>closure</em>, it keeps wounds open and fresh.
Hi Martin, with all that is going on I'm not sure where i should stand, I don't know if i should stay quiet and keep my opinion on all this to myself or if I should stand up and state my opinion as a young African American female. I come to you in guidance on what i should do as you are someone i look up to because of all the things you did. Could you please write back when you get the chance.
Sincerely, (your name)
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