Question

please answer, don't get mad, I know this isn't a math question or anything, but am I a burdon? I meet someone who eventually become my friend the same day, introduced me to their friends, because I had no friends, and knew no one at school. I isolated myself. but we hang out at lunch now, all of them, but like when I see them during school, they see me and ignore me, and don't say hi. this happened to 2 of them, and another, but they just asked a question"what day is it" am I a burdon? I mean I feel like I'm trying hard, I tried to say hi, but they looked away, I bring them for everyone, I brought food for 2 people, I brought iced tea for another one of them, I'm bringing cookies tomorrow for the whole group, and I'm bringing rice crispys for another day. but I still don't know what to talk about. I don't want to sit at lunch with them, but they sit infront of the entrance to my building when the bell rings. kinda hard to avoid. any advice please???????? I feel horrible. then if I don't sit at lunch with them, I feel soooo guilty!!​

Answer 1

Answer:

You should/shouldn't sit with them. It varies. Also, find better friends. Your school has dozens of kids. There has to be the right person out there!

Explanation:

If they are being mean and not letting you in on things/pretending you don't exist, that is a form of bullying. That happened to me - its NOT okay. You should not be sitting with them at all, why should you be sitting with bullies? Find a new group of friends, ones that will care for you and make sure you feel good all day, every day.

If they feel like you leave them out on things, sit with them! Try to make light conversation. If one opens up, start talking to them. Then others will join in if they have anything to say. If all of you guys in this "group" sit together except for you, they shouldn't even care. If you want to sit with others, its your choice. They have each other-they should be fine.

The food. What your doing with your treats is amazing - you must be a wonderful person. But giving them treats will only make them want you FOR your TREATS, not for YOU. You should stop giving treats. If they ask why you didn't bring more food (which is rude, by the way!) you should tell them that a. I didn't feel like making more, or b. why does it matter? If they want to be your friend, they want to be your friend.

You are not alone, and you are not a burden. You will NEVER BE a burden. I want you to know that. I felt that way before. You are amazing, inspirational, and kind. What is happening to you is wrong, and shouldn't be happening in the first place. I say, screw it. Find a better group of friends, or talk to your parents about switching schools. That's what I did.

Have an amazing day! Please mark brainliest (if you want. No pressure or anything). Luv ya!

Answer 2

Answer:

You are 100% not a burdon

Explanation:

I am sure you are a kind and wonderful person. I've been bullied so I know how you feel. I am sure that even if those few people are horribale, there is other amazing people at your school. Don't give nice things to people who are mean to you. And please don't feel guilty. I am sure people have told you to talk to them, but i know how hard that can be, espesily if you're shy. I know i have been told that I am butiful, but no matter how much they tell me, I still don't belive it, i hate what i look like. I know how i will never love myself, and the same may go for you, or something in your life like your body, attitude, or other. But I want you to know that I am hear for you and if you ever want to talk please do, it won't bother me, it will make me feel a lot better knowing that you have someone to talk to. I will send you a friend request and maybe we can talk there, its much more private.

P.S. sorry about the spelling mistakes.