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However, as you've lived there for a while, you may hate the place and want to get out and go somewhere else. Living abroad is not as rosy as you imagine. The differences in languages, extremely stressful jobs, homesickness, horrible food, and countless things that “bump into your face” may make you feel exhausted.
The central idea of the poem is how her mother died and took her courage with her, something her child does not have. The child states how since she is dead she took it with her to her grave which is why they said she does not need it anymore. The mother left behind a golden brooch that she wore since it would remind her child of her even when she is gone. But the child wants her courage, not her brooch.
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It's a medium dry sherry.