If you look deep into the question, the answer would be telling someone something bad gently but if you were to look light into the question, the answer would just be rain comming down gently
Answer:
1, allow you to understand one's feeling.
2,how to deal with situation (love).
3, learn more about Life.
4, living situation behind and moving on.
A and a for the other one I believe
Amicable is the answer that I got to fit the sentence.