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Fear and rage are not very different when you think about it, two hungry animals that often hunt the same prey—emotion—and hide from the shame.
Its both. Depending on the type of sentence you're using. If it is describing an action you did with your grandkids then you would use, 'my grandkids and I'. If it is describing an action someone else did for you and your grandkids then it'd be 'my grandkids and me'.
Otto is an endangered Bonobo monkey that Sophie rescued from a street pedlar in the Democratic Republic of the Congo. He was abused and she had to nurse him back to full health. It is safe to say that he nearly died. They bond with each other as she nurses him back to health. At the same time, revolution breaks out in the Congo. This story is about Sophie and Otto flee from her home and try to survive the revolution. Otto teaches Sophie how to survive in more than one way. He teaches her how to find food in the jungles as well teaching her to find the ability to endure traumatic circumstances to survive.