I think people succeed when they set a goal and challenge themselves to reach that goal. You will most likely have a million small successes that only you know about before the world sees any of your success. You have to be happy with not achieving your goal the first time you try and you have to dream. If your dream doesn’t scare you then you’re not dreaming big enough.
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a. Oral Sex - this still causes transfer of sexual fluids which can spread HIV. Technically if sexual fluids come in contact with toilet seats or clothing (underwear, etc), than HIV can be spread through those. But the chances of contracting HIV must be slim for those options since the fluids need to find a cut or an open blood vessel to enter.