The answer is most likely the second one
Where is the poem so I can help ?
1)Say thank you and
2)Give her kisses everyday
3)Ask how she's doing
4)Ask if she's ok
5)Spend time with you mother
6)Help her cook and clean
7)Above all, appreciate her
8)And listen to what she has to say
I hope this gives you an idea
I have never read the book but if your looking for point of view then 1st person uses words like "i,we,my,me." The narrator is in the story. 2nd person uses phrases like "You do this, you do that." 3rd person the narrator is telling you the story.