For the first question I would say conspicuous and the second I would say apprentice
It let's everyone else feel that they've been heard and that they've contributed.
it lets you hold back your own thoughts until you've heard everyone else's, allowing you to form a more complete, better-formulated opinion.
Explanation:
I'm my opinion I'd say he/she cares about you cuz you never know maybe that day you might have had a bad day and badly needed someone so I guess yes they have feelings for you because they thought of you