The conflict, hes tired of waiting for this mysterious "she" and he would rather leave and feel grown as much as he is.
A cause of great trouble or suffering.
The dark clouds gave me a glimpse that it was going to rain. It rained so hard. There was so much puddles when I was walking. Rain is such a soothing sound it makes me feel very calm. Also I don’t really like rain when I’m out because I hate the feeling of getting wet when I have clothes on. When I was out there was so much people carrying umbrellas.
This period is considered to be a moment of testing boundaries hence why the role of women in literature changed drastically. During this period of time women started to be portrayed as main characters instead of romantic counterparts/secondary characters. Instead of being the emblem of fragility they suddenly became icons of independence and emotional intelligence (hence why they were usually described as able to reveal their feelings and express their thoughts and opinions)
For example both stories portray the stereotypes that all girls want to be popoular, worshipped and the focus of attention and how society tends to discriminate people based on their looks they counter attack those beliefs and instead make the statement that although physical beauty has a great value in society it is not what determines a person's value.